When I Croak for military families is a map of every account, policy, benefit, document and contact a spouse would need during a deployment or after a loss — built in one evening, updated in minutes, and accessible with two-factor authentication from anywhere.
The pre-deployment checklist covers the POA and the SGLI form. It does not cover the credit union account you opened at your last duty station, the storage unit in Texas, or who your spouse should call first. This does.
Every PCS leaves something behind. A map lists all of it in one place, with who to call.
SGLI, DEERS, TSP, VA. Your spouse needs the names, the numbers, and the order — not a folder to dig through.
The Guide speaks first. What matters today, what to say, and permission to stop.
The Living Map keeps it current with an annual audit — and a five-minute update after every PCS.
The Guide interviews you. Most service members finish the essentials in a single sitting.
Two-factor authentication, real-time login alerts, nothing stored that could be used to access an account.
Included on every plan. It knows every account and contact in your map and walks your spouse through the first days.

The people who most need a map are the ones who least have time to build one. That's who I built The Guide for.Jason Caras, founder — built When I Croak after spending months reconstructing his best friend Frank's financial life by hand. Author of My Rose-Colored Glasses.
A permanent discount for active duty, reserve, veterans and spouses — applied at checkout with ID.me. [CONFIRM discount amount and verification method]
For one person who wants the essentials done.
$3.99 /month
Rate locked for life
For couples and families who want it kept current.
$6.99 /month
Rate locked for life
For people who want to leave more than a list.
$9.99 /month
Rate locked for life
One $77 setup on every plan. Your monthly rate is locked for life. Stop paying and your map drops to The Map — it never disappears.
Take the test. Then leave them a map, not a folder.
Take the free 48-Hour Test or see pricing → No card to take the test. Cancel the monthly anytime.