After a Divorce | When I Croak
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After a divorce

Your divorce is final. Your paperwork isn't.

When I Croak after a divorce is a map that helps you re-list every account, policy, beneficiary and contact under your new name and new life — and gives whoever you choose, not your ex, the ability to find it.

The decree changed your life. It did not change the beneficiary on the 401(k) from 2009, the emergency contact at your bank, or who gets called if something happens to you tonight. The map surfaces all of it.

See how it works after the decree
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A map, not a vault.We record where things are and who to call. We never store account numbers, passwords, or Social Security numbers.
Bank-grade security.AES-256 encryption, mandatory two-factor for every family member, SOC 2 infrastructure, cyber-liability insured.
Cancel the monthly anytime.Your map drops to The Map. It never disappears, and your rate never goes up while you stay.

What the decree
didn't update.

Beneficiaries frozen in time

Retirement accounts and life insurance pay whoever is on the form — often the ex. The map's beneficiary audit flags every one.

The wrong emergency contact

Banks, doctors, the kids' school. Your map lists who should be called now.

Nobody has the whole picture

Your ex used to know where everything was. Now no one does. Build the map for the people who are in your life today.

A map for your new life.

The Living Map's beneficiary audit walks every account and asks one question: is this still who you want? Then it lists who to call and how.

Beneficiary audit

Every account, every policy, one pass. Fix what the decree didn't.

Chosen family

Designate a sibling, a friend, an adult child. Access is yours to grant and revoke.

The Guide for whoever you choose

It knows your map and walks them through the first days, so nobody has to call your ex for information.

Jason Caras
Half the accounts I found for Frank's family were tangled up with a marriage that had ended years earlier. The paperwork never catches up on its own. Jason Caras, founder — built When I Croak after spending months reconstructing his best friend Frank's financial life by hand. Author of My Rose-Colored Glasses.

Start with The Living Map

The beneficiary audit is in The Living Map. $77 to build, $6.99 a month to keep it current.

The Map

For one person who wants the essentials done.

$77 to build

$3.99 /month

Rate locked for life

  • The Guide included at activation
  • Complete guided life map
  • Every asset and liability category
  • Key contacts directory
  • Printable survivor checklist
  • Edit anytime
Get The Map
Most families choose this

The Living Map

For couples and families who want it kept current.

$77 to build

$6.99 /month

Rate locked for life

  • Everything in The Map
  • Unlimited family logins
  • Annual life and beneficiary audit
  • Subscription killer and coverage-gap detector
  • Executor onboarding and First-48 Playbook
  • Digital legacy and crypto wallet locations
  • Pet care and incapacitation plans
Build my Living Map

The Legacy

For people who want to leave more than a list.

$77 to build

$9.99 /month

Rate locked for life

  • Everything in The Living Map
  • Time-capsule letters and videos for milestones
  • Public memorial page
  • Photo timeline and life book
  • Final wishes and funeral preferences
  • Heirloom inventory with photos
  • Business succession plan · 25 GB
Build my Legacy

One $77 setup on every plan. Your monthly rate is locked for life. Stop paying and your map drops to The Map — it never disappears.

Questions people ask after a divorce.

Can my ex ever see this?
Only if you add them. You decide who can open the map and when, and you can revoke anyone with one click.
Does it change my beneficiaries for me?
No. It shows you every account where a beneficiary is on file and reminds you to contact that institution. Changing a beneficiary is done with the institution directly.
I have kids with my ex. How does that work?
Many people name an adult child or sibling as the trusted contact and add instructions about the children in the map.

Build the map for
the life you have now.

Two minutes to see what the decree missed.

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